Do you remember on the ‘Cause of Conflict is the Limitation of Thought’ thread, we were saying that
when there is conflict between two people it implies that each person is identifying themselves with their own program, their own set of words and concepts, their own symbol-system - and these symbol-systems, being limited, must mutually exclude the other, thereby creating confusion, conflict, misunderstanding
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I feel this thread is a perfect example of this. Each of us has our own symbolic network of images, which interacts with the ‘otherness’ of the other images. But essentially all the images are the same: they all define ourselves against each other, and so create division. You and me; we and they. This is the thought-created self in action, in the mirror of relationship.
How do we break this mirror?
Must I accept your images and repress my own images? Or do I assert my images and to hell with your images? - It seems we do both, don’t we?
Some of us claim to have no images, and to have ended division. But if this is not a fundamental truth, then it just contributes to image-formation. Maybe, if I feel overawed, I will suppress my image and accept your image of yourself as imageless. Or I reject this imageless image, and seek to show you that your imageless image is an illusion - thereby strengthening my own image.
Meanwhile those of us who do not claim to be imageless get stuck in our own images (both with regards to ourselves and to each other), and we try to justify them, assert them, either dominating others with our own image or allowing ourselves to be dominated by other people’s images. It is a war, isn’t it?
So how do we break out of this image war, without either suppressing our own images (and accepting another’s image), or suppressing other people’s images (by accepting our own image)?
What is the way out of the cycle?
Must we not first see the activity of our own images, our own egotism, in the mirror of relationship? Can we see - without judgement or condemnation or justification - our own investment in our images, and how we defend and attack others on the basis of this investment?
I think the solution (if there is one) starts here.