I think this is the point Douglas. Choiceless awareness is for everybody, not just a chosen few. I don’t think an intellectual understanding of it can lead anywhere: it is something to be done, to be experimented with, to be tested out in daily life - when taking a walk, when sitting in the car, when tidying up the room, when sitting at a cafe or under a tree. Maybe this is more difficult to experiment with in a conflict situation (with a boss, with a supposed “enemy”, with a difficult relative), but there is no intrinsic reason why one can’t be choicelessly aware in that situation too.
There is no right or wrong place to experiment with it, nothing to accumulate as knowledge, no “expertise” to be gained or something to accomplish, no winning or losing, no argument to be had. Yesterday’s awareness is already over, a memory at best.
So one cannot say - “well I tried that and it didn’t work for me”, or “I’ve learned all there is to know about being aware”, or “one can’t be aware for this or that ideological reason” - one can only be aware, or be unaware, this very second. That’s the beauty of it.
Maybe there are depths or degrees of this awareness where there is a complete absence of ego, a complete emptying of conditioning, total attention, insight.
Or maybe there is just the ordinary awareness of one’s face in the mirror, an ache in one’s back, a mood that still lingers from yesterday, the incessant verbal monologue taking place in the mind, the view of the sky and the street from one’s window. There is no right or wrong when it comes to what is. What is simply is, right?
This thread is about the practical things we can actually do with our lives. Experimenting with being aware, and catching ourselves being unaware; experimenting with looking at trees, plants, birds and animals, at people, at our own daily reactions, is something we can actually do - and so has nothing to do with intellectual accomplishment. As the good teacher said,
Nobody need tell you how to look. You just look.