I have the slight feeling that you are trying to avoid answering my questions . It was not I who said that “mystery implies a lack of certainty”. So my questions have nothing to do with the search for definitions, but simply to know to what certainty you were referring when you said that “mystery implies a lack of certainty” (something that complexity would (supposedly) inversely have), nothing more.
One’s own conditioning in charge of judging the appropriateness or inappropriateness of the other’s words, yes.
No, it simply means using certain words to express to the other what one wants to communicate. From then on, it is the other’s conditioning that will take care of interpreting them according to the particular vision of the world that this conditioning has for him or her (together with the corresponding clarifications by the former to his or her interlocutor in order to be able to continue the dialogue).
A serious dialogue, interested in discovering the truth or falsity of something, never tries to cover up anything (including one’s own conditioning present in the dialogue). Mostly because it would be stupid and hypocritical.
Again, this is nothing more than an interpretation of the other’s words, according to one’s own particular conditioning of what they mean.
Centuries of Christianity have done terrible damage to a humanity that once followed its postulates without question, and now bases its denial on a new dogmatic religion called ‘science’ that it does not question either. With the same threats and excommunications to anyone who dares to question it, as the Catholic church did not so long ago.
I fully agree that conditioning can “mislead us, creating a sense of wonder or fascination but ultimately leading us away from what is”.
And I am referring both to the conditioning accepted for centuries without questioning, of Christian Church, and to the conditioning accepted now (also without questioning) of this new religion called “Science”.
Not in “how we use them”, but in how our conditioning uses them, making a reality of them as opposed to another reality they may have for the conditioning of the other.
Everything will depend on the particular conditioning of each one in charge of interpreting them, and on how much one is attached to that conditioning that shapes the reality on which it bases its interpretation of “what is”.
In short: all of the above could be summed up simply in that the problem are not the words but the conditioning that interprets them, turning them into particular realities as opposed to other particular realities created on the basis of those very same words.
But forgive me for erring on the side of naivety, and believe that we were on a Krushnamurti forum where each of us is supposed to have no problem talking openly about one’s own conditioning once it has come to light for oneself, rather than continually trying to hide it behind the diffuse cloud of words that arise from that same conditioning.